Sharon you have to realize that he doesn't see himself as a bad guy just misunderstood. Let him have his excuses, you know the truth. Oh, and for the record its is always RIGHT to go into a relationship honestly and not be a bullshitter. Yes, sometimes you get hurt but in the long run you are the one who will have a HAPPY LIFE, I promise. Let him tell himself whatever he has to, so he can get through the day. You know the truth and live in a real world --- he is lving in fantasyland.

DAD