I agree with your mom and dad. First off why is Pooja volunteering to play messenger? If he wanted to let you know all that he should have been able to tell you himself NOT through her. If you're friends between 2 people you should know better than to tell the other person what's been said by the other. Your JOB in the greater scheme of things is to sympathsize and emphasize with each person and keep your trap shut about the whole mess. You are NOT supposed to play the he said she said game. It just causes more problems and heartache in the end. Secondly, you're SUPPOSED to be honest and care about the person when you get into a relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. The fact of the matter is that you're a much stronger person that he EVER was or will be. Please don't get the idea that whenever you get close to a person they'll end up hurting you because that's not true. You are a terrific and loveable person. LOTS of people LOVE you and when you finally find a guy that's worthy of all your great qualities you'll see. Unfortunately you have to go through a million and one douchebags but in the end it's worth while. Don't give up and for GOD'S SAKES don't let the moron from Michigan ROB you of all the great things you've built yourself up into. Luv ya Sharon!!! xoxo Kathy
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I agree with your mom and dad. First off why is Pooja volunteering to play messenger? If he wanted to let you know all that he should have been able to tell you himself NOT through her. If you're friends between 2 people you should know better than to tell the other person what's been said by the other. Your JOB in the greater scheme of things is to sympathsize and emphasize with each person and keep your trap shut about the whole mess. You are NOT supposed to play the he said she said game. It just causes more problems and heartache in the end. Secondly, you're SUPPOSED to be honest and care about the person when you get into a relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. The fact of the matter is that you're a much stronger person that he EVER was or will be. Please don't get the idea that whenever you get close to a person they'll end up hurting you because that's not true. You are a terrific and loveable person. LOTS of people LOVE you and when you finally find a guy that's worthy of all your great qualities you'll see. Unfortunately you have to go through a million and one douchebags but in the end it's worth while. Don't give up and for GOD'S SAKES don't let the moron from Michigan ROB you of all the great things you've built yourself up into. Luv ya Sharon!!!
xoxo
Kathy