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Am I just getting old? Or is the world so saturated with nostalgia for the 90s that it's infected me too?

First, VH1 had the 100 greatest songs of the 90s. Which was pretty great, all told. Lots of great songs along the way. And anything that features the Yacht Rock guys is a-ok with me. Then there was a book about Sassy, which was my Bible when Jane Pratt was running the joint.

It got worse when netflix started delivering episodes of My So-Called Life. I remembered the show, or I thought I did. When I started watching again, it all came back fresh. Fresh pain, fresh mortification, fresh incomprehension at what used to be called fashion. And remembering how many clothes Angela Chase and I had in common. Oh, Lord. The skinny shirts with the long vests over them, and the burgundy crushed velvet stretch dress that I loved more than life itself. The chokers and the charm earrings. I lived for this one store called Clothestime. I think they were a national chain - anyone remember them? They didn't survive the 90s, but half my closet was from there at one point.

Right now I'm sitting here listening to Liz Phair's Exile In Guyville for the first time. I can't believe it either. It was one of those albums that Sassy used to rave and rave about, that I always meant to buy but never seemed to, that no one ever bought me for a holiday or birthday gift because of the Parental Advisory sticker. Maybe it's better, though. I'm not sure I would have gotten this album at 13 or 14. I certainly wouldn't have loved it as much as I am loving it now. I used to have this rule about needing to like three songs on a cd before I invested in it. It saved me from a lot of clunkers, but I think I should have taken a leap of blind, Sassy-fueled fate and just bought this one back in the day. It wasn't like the radio was going to play Liz Phair. If DRE/LIR ever played her, I didn't realize it at the time.

This song is New Orleans Girl's favorite. When I showed her my huge haul of cds from the library, she screamed when she saw this one. "How did you not own this cd?" she asked me. "How?!" I had no idea. But I really like what I'm hearing.

Now I want to call my mom and ask her if she knows if that green, gold, and purple woven, button-down Levi shirt is still somewhere in the house, or if it finally got given away. It's probably huge on me (in my day, girls almost always wore oversized stuff), but damn, I miss that shirt. I lived in that shirt. I wore it constantly, like Angela wore that red and blue flannel. I wore it and wore it and wore it until I couldn't look at it anymore.

Of course, there's a metric ton of things related to the 90s that I do not, and will never miss. Ugh. Is there ever. Still, I wouldn't mind being about to take who I was out for a coffee (I still drank it back then), and reassure her that yes, it does get better. The dating? Maybe not. The social aspect? Way, way better. And that internet she's starting to really love? Oh, sweetie. Just wait until about 1999 or so. That's going to go crazy. Man.

I have a feeling that when I'm done with Liz Phair I'm going to watch My So-Called Life. It's like, important, or something.

Date: 2008-01-12 05:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] traces.livejournal.com
the problem w/me & MSCL? when i first started watching it, i related to angela. now, angela reminds me of alex & patty reminds me of me!!

which is just...scary!!!

Date: 2008-01-12 04:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] offbalance.livejournal.com
Oh, man. That's tough.

Angela is a touch more annoying this time through. Maybe because I'm older. I dunno.

Date: 2008-01-12 06:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quodlibetic.livejournal.com
OMG, you'd never heard Exile In Guyville?!? Awesome, awesome, awesome album. Two thumbs up. :)

My favorites:
6'1"
Never Said
Fuck And Run
Divorce Song
Flower (mostly for the shock value when played for those who've never heard the song)
Stratford-Upon-Guy

Though the whole album's damned good as a whole. Yay!

Date: 2008-01-12 04:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] offbalance.livejournal.com
Two thumbs way, way up. It's an amazing album.

I agree with all of the songs you mentioned. I can not stop listening to "Never Said." "Fuck and Run" may wind up as my theme song this year. Let's hope not.

Date: 2008-01-12 04:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quodlibetic.livejournal.com
Oh, "Fuck and Run" was definitely my song for certain years. So, so very much. I hope you avoid it as a theme song this year, though. :)

Date: 2008-01-12 05:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] offbalance.livejournal.com
As theme songs go, there are worse ones. I'm listening to it right now, and I just keep thinking, "Yes. Yes. Finally, someone gets it."

Date: 2008-01-12 02:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] redstapler.livejournal.com
Plz to be sharing the Liz Phair. I did the same thing with that album. :( (Though, let me check Scott's shelf first--I bet he totally has it.) He totally has it. ::unsurprised face::

I hear you on the 90s nostalgia. oy.
Edited Date: 2008-01-12 02:42 pm (UTC)

Date: 2008-01-12 04:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] offbalance.livejournal.com
Your man has good taste! Did you listen yet?

It's really hitting like a tank, isn't it?

Date: 2008-01-13 02:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quodlibetic.livejournal.com
Completely unrelated:

Check out the newest issue of Missbehave magazine. Apparently there's a story in it about our favorite local newsman, Pat Kiernan. The cover blurb? "NY1 DILF: Pat Kiernan". HA! :)

Date: 2008-01-13 04:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] angelicillusion.livejournal.com
For some reason all I remember from the 90s was Lisa Loeb's song "Stay" and Sophie B Hawkins "As I Lay Me Down To Sleep" ... I'm also having flashes of coveralls and Death Maiden's Rainbow colored hair ... I have no idea why however ...

Date: 2008-01-13 01:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] feminist-poet.livejournal.com
Oh my god, you never heard Exile in Guyville!!!!???? I am in shock!!

Ah, the 90's. The years of the BIG JEWISH DELI! Hahahahahaha! The years of plaid shirts and Doc Martins and rolled up jeans!!!

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